Other people's children

I find all children equally fascinating - to watch, to talk to, to play with. Most of the times that is, not while they are in the midst of a tantrum or a stubborn sequence of nos and why's and whines, or when my smartphone is being charged:) Before becoming a parent myself, I was very besotted and amused with children. All this was on borrowed time - kid from the neighbour over for a half hour so his Mom could finish making dinner or just sit and browse the TV in blissful peace. Sometimes, little ones of cousins and relatives who would be happy to find an enthusiastic young Aunt to pander to their requests. I would be equally happy with such interactions and they left me feeling warm and contented.

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  1. Renu25 May 2013 at 06:41

    I cant manage other's children at all, that way may be I am not children loving person:)

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    1. Chatty Wren25 May 2013 at 21:05

      I don't think so, Renuji! It could be that we can't assume any kind of authority over other's children, esp. teaching them stuff as it may not be similar to what their parents teach them. Normally, we are mindful of them when children play together and spend time together. I am not sure that is a good thing, but other parents also don't like their kids to be corrected, so a bit confused about that.

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  2. Unknown31 May 2013 at 23:21

    off to check it out!

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  3. Chatty Wren1 June 2013 at 20:35

    Thanks, responded there:)

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  4. Aparna4 June 2013 at 14:58

    Nowadays I am more interested in talking to my older cousins and friends - their experience and tales are eye-opening! All my raving ranting and venting is mostly done to some of these moms who have been there, done that - lends some perspective when I am second-guessing myself.
    Good post - enjoyed reading it.

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    1. Chatty Wren4 June 2013 at 19:14

      I've been thinking along the same lines, checking with older cousins on advice and experiences. Have had some eye-opening moments! Thanks Aparna!

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  5. Anonymous5 June 2013 at 06:53

    Very interesting topic! Hopping over to read your article now! :)

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    1. Chatty Wren6 June 2013 at 10:04

      Thank you, TGND! I will follow you there:)

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