My stars for April 2013

When I read these monthly forecasts, I look forward to the great things  they promise for my future. Save for  the effects of retrogrades and MonsterMoons and eclipses, etc., most of the times my horoscope predictions are balanced,  and also exactly the same as for almost 1/12th the world's population. So, as per the stars and planets, April offers a beaming social influence on my life. It also encourages me to face my fears and  clean up all my pending tasks, indication of partnerships, digital media and publishing influences, etc...Do note, I am not quoting one particular astrologer but the many that publicize free monthly horoscopes on the web and after reading about 5 of them, this is my take away.

My favorite sites are AstrologyZone and Jessica Adams. I love the way they write to engage their audience. Of course, if one has to justify reading them for a length of time and also wanting to believe in them, you have to work at making them come true. One box has been ticked - social influences. For the last 3 weekends we've been entertaining. Which may not be a big deal for a lot of people, but for our household a rare occurrence which warrants a recording. And also, I wanted to note down what I cooked. Also for future reference.
Meal 1: Courgette koftas, stuffed capsicum, moong dal in buttermilk
Meal 2: Methi rice & Raita & Ragda-pattice
Meal 3: Stuffed karela & aloo & methi-dumplings in tomato gravy and Dal-Makhni

Regarding overcoming my fears, well, I've started driving. Ok, a month ago, never alone, and then it's an  automatic.  There are times when I go into meditative mode before reversing, much to the amusement of my co-passenger and instructor, my husband. But beginning this month, I've started driving alone. The shame and embarrassment of not able to conquer this fear finally got to me. The other day I dropped and picked the kids from school, did my grocery shopping and library in one go and felt almost accomplished. For those of you who've been doing all this and more for years and years, do allow me my small moment of joy. Of course, I ought to mention 3 people who have helped me practice my turns and reverse and parking, etc, other than my husband to whom I am really thankful. One of them in particular who is a new driver herself shares all tips and tricks - like parking on the last slot in a parking lot, etc and are kind enough to encourage me. More than anything, both Big G and lil G are thrilled to bits that Mamma can drive.

I am also randomly cleaning and sprucing home, in no particular order, so it is organised in bits and pieces. Digital media etc is taken care of by the blog, FB, etc and maybe you want to look at my article on Parentous here. None of them forecasts mention health and fitness a lot, which is why they've been languishing totally :) We also have had Easter break of 2 long weeks - and not so great weather through this all. So not a single family outing has been planned. Of course there are promises for the later half of the month. And keeping fingers crossed.

How is this month looking for you, with or without predictions?




Comments

  1. Wah! I loved the menu that you cooked.yipppeee momma can drive now :) wonderful. I am lousy car driver so I prefer to stay to my two wheeler.

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    1. :) Thanks! Yes, am a very cautious driver and still to go on highways, etc. But I don't want to be dependent any more!

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  2. I have been driving around for a while now, but oh no, yours shouldn't be a "small" moment of joy. The first time I did it, I made sure anyone living within 10 km of me heard about it.
    Good for you.

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    1. Thanks LG! I can't honk in joy for sure, or I'll be fined. Sharing here on my blog helps!

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  3. Driving by yourself is an achievement for sure!! I am trying my hand at it slowly now.
    Looks like you are determined to prove the predictions true :)

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    1. I agree Aarthy, it makes a lot of difference if one can drive. Wish you good luck with your attempts, don't give up! Yes, they never come true, so I decided to work on them :P

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  4. I love reading astrology zone ! The thing is I forget what I had read minutes after I read it. Then at the end of the month, I go back to see how accurate it was :P

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    1. Lol, Ruchira, that is true for me too. And astrology zone is really detailed. I love the way she writes and her story is inspiring too.

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  5. It's lovely to not depend on others to take you around, that's for sure!
    Your menu is so intriguing! Hopefully, you'll be posting some recipes too shortly!

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    1. Yes, Roshni, it feels great to be able to drive and come back home with car and self intact :) Ah, yes, I have to work on my recipe blog but all these recipes are googlable.

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  6. Driving is one of those things that's like' one step for man - a giant leap for humanity' substitute man with 'everyone else' and humanity with 'ME' :))) Keep Going! In a few months, you'll like Hmph! THAT was something I once worried about??!! Seriously, no kidding. Cliched, but been there done that...

    AS for my month - I'll just say three words' Could Be Better' LOL!!

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    1. Saytavachan, MWaD, couldn't have said it better. So far it's only been on quieter roads, yet to hit the highway, that will be a true test of nerves! But plan to take that slowly :) Aww, things might indeed change for the better, sending good vibes your way.

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  7. Yaay!! you can drive alone!!! It's more about practice than anything else...I am sure with more practice you will be more confident :)
    Loved your menus!! Ragda pattice, i am drooling here....

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    1. Yes ZM, I can finally say I drive alone. Every time, I have to literally push myself for the next time. It doesn't come easy for me:( Ragda Pattice is my fav. too:)

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  8. Congratulations on the driving! :) It is something I am too afraid to do myself. :(

    The menus sound wonderful! Please do share recipes, okie? The moong dal in buttermilk sounds especially interesting.

    I am not a big believer in newspaper and magazine horoscopes, but I do read them sometimes just for fun and passing time.

    As for this month in my life, it looks pretty blah. No fun. :(

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    1. Thanks TGND! Yes admittedly some of us have a fear or block to driving, we've got to work harder to overcome our fears. I will share the recipe, next time I make it, and I do make this one often. I read forecasts, never really remember them though, this time just wanted to make one come true:) Hey, it's exactly half a month left, am sure it will be end better :)

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  9. God, Vibha..I've been missing out on this space for some time now..going to quickly correct it.
    I used to be a huge fan of astrology at one time of my life, following every prediction closely and even tried my handing at learning it. Then, when the anticipation of future and the thoughts of the effects of dismal predictions began to cloud my present, I turned away from the whole thing. Now, even if I read, I do it for pleasure, to forget it the next minute.
    congrats on driving alone! I know what you are feeling since I have been through this quite recently and even now, though I'm no expert, driving alone gives me the thrill and decent driving makes my chest puff up in pride :-)))

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    1. No worries Uma, read from your post you were busy with old friends! Great to see you here! Really, you learned astrology - western or Indian? Yes, I never keep these forecasts in mind, not worth any extra worries, my poor memory helps a lot too:)
      Kudos to you on being persistent with driving! I know people who say driving is fun, wonder how many years it will take for me to get there, as of now I live from one safe drive to the next one :)

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